PickUp-Congress Berlin 2007

Pickup-Congress Berlin 2007, 19.10.2007 - 21.10.2007D.I.A.S. ist einer der bekanntesten Pickup Artists in Norddeutschland.

Er gründete das Hamburger Lair und war auch für andere PickUp Artists da, welche ein neues Lair gründen wollten. Als eines der herausragenden Beispiele unterstüzt er Razor und Darkflame intensiv bei der Gründung des Berliner Lairs.

Seine Entwicklung als Verführer hat eine Entwicklung genommern, nach der sich andere in der Community sehnen.

Die von ihm initiierte Website DiasandFriends.com ist Beweis für seine Integrität und Schaffenskraft.

Außerdem ist D.I.A.S. sehr sozial engagier und bietet der Community regelmäßig kostenlose Workshops über Selbsbewusstsein und Körpersprache.

Er ist ein echter Hamburer Player mit afrikanischen Wurzeln, der weiß wie man Frauen verführt und jede Unsicherheit der schönen Damen in sekundenschnelle verfliegen lässt.

D.I.A.S. wird neben anderen Redner in Berlin dabei sein!



PickUpCongress 2007 Redner (Pick-up):

1. Dimitri (theApproach) zum Thema "How to make Girlfriends so loyal they'd die for you - Relationship Management through powerful, masculine Leadership" (englisch)
2. Christian Hudson (Master the Vibe, Co-Founder Charisma Arts) zum Thema "Elite Women - Seduction of Models and Actresses" (englisch)
3. Noah (Head of New York Lair, VYBElist) zum Thema "American PickUp Arts - Power Lifestyle" (englisch)
4. PuaL (Reality Show Coach, VYBElist) zum Thema "PickUp Targetting like a Real Man" (englisch)
5. Stripped (Founder DutchSeduction) zum Thema "Q&A Session: Inner, Direct and Indirect Game" (englisch)
6. The Joker (Progressive Seduction) zum Thema "Der Mann im 21. Jahrhundert - Vision und Natural Game Flow" (deutsch)
7. Ra (Founder Effective Seduction & PickUp Forum, Progressive Seduction) zum Thema "Alpha Lifestyle, Leadership und innere Harmonie“ (deutsch)
8. Stefan Strecker (Seros) mit einem "Überraschungsthema" (deutsch)
9. Dorothea Seror (Dorothea Seror) zum Thema "Last Minute Resistance & Bedroom Optimizations - Erfüllender Sex“ (deutsch)
10. D.I.A.S. (DIASandFriends) zum Thema "Eine starke, unzerbrechliche Identität“ (deutsch)
11. Lickin' (Mental Management) zum Thema "Perfektes Lesen und Anwenden von Körpersprache" (deutsch)
12. Tom Krause (CharismaCare) zum Thema "Business, Freundeskreis, Seduction - Profundes NLP und seine Geheimnisse" (deutsch)
13. Darkflame (Co-Founder Berlin Lair) zum Thema "ErfolgsGame im Social Circle" (deutsch)
14. Grenzgänger zum Thema "Threesomes - So gewinnt man Dreier" (englisch, Präsentation deutsch)
15. Scythe42 zum Thema "High Concept Seduction - Evolutionäre Psychologie, nonverbale Kommunikation, dyadische Interaktion"

Mystery on Conan Obrien

I-TV Coaching Episode 13: Social Circle

Kölnerinnen sind von der schnellen Sorte

...Am muntersten in dieser Hinsicht sind demnach die Kölnerinnen, die auch am schnellsten auf einen Flirt eingehen. Die Frauen aus Berlin und Leipzig lassen sich im bundesweiten Vergleich auch nicht lange bitten. Am längsten zieren sich die Frauen in Bayern und in Schleswig-Holstein. Die besten Chancen auf einen erfolgreichen Flirt haben die Männer der Umfrage zufolge in Köln, Berlin und München - vor allem, wenn sie sich etwas Ausgefallenes und Überraschendes einfallen lassen. Das fasziniert demnach 68 Prozent der befragten Frauen...

Artikel: Kölnerinnen wollen schnellen Sex (Stern.de)

Pick-Up Artist: Vin DiCarlo and Julian Foxx on Phone Game Pt. 1

Die anderen Teile bei YouTube von "vindicarlo"

A Secret Women Know But Men Don't

By David DeAngelo

I'd like to tell you a story...

It's a story that you might find strangely familiar. Don't be alarmed.

Once upon a time, there was a man who was very attracted to a particular woman.

At first, she was just another attractive woman... but the more he got to know her, the more he began to feel attracted to her... and the more time he spent with her, the more that attraction grew into a deep emotional attachment and affection for her.

But there was one problem.

As his emotional attachment grew stronger and stronger, he also grew more and more insecure.

Why?

Because he couldn't tell whether or not she felt the same way towards him.

Sometimes she would say things like "You are so important to me" and "I'm glad that you're in my life"... but nothing ever progressed past the "friendship" stage.

There was an occasional hug, an occasional kiss on the cheek from her... and once she even held his hand for a long time while he talked about an emotional issue.

But something was wrong with the picture.

She just wasn't acting like a woman that was "falling in love". She was acting like a friend.

The insecurity that he felt became a spiral that amplified itself... and the more insecure he became, the more afraid he grew of "screwing things up" by kissing her or asking her to be his girlfriend.

Plus, the more insecure he became, the less time she seemed to want to spend with him.

After spending many days and nights obsessing over this girl, the man finally arrived at the conclusion that if she only knew how HE FELT, that she would feel the same way.

So he made a bold move.

He TOLD HER how he was felt.

He confessed that he was in love, and that he would do anything to be with her.

She looked at him with compassion in her eyes and said "Thank you... I really mean that... but I don't want to mess up our friendship... you're too important to me...".

This only confused the man more.

He didn't know how to take it...

Did it mean that she really loved him too, but that she was afraid of something?

Did it mean that she wasn't ready for a long-term relationship?

Did it mean that she didn't love him, but that she was trying to give him a hint?

Did it mean that he hadn't tried hard enough?

Did it mean that he needed to put everything on the line and REALLY let her know how he felt?

He finally decided that he couldn't go on like this anymore... he had to be with her.

He had to make sure that she knew just how much he wanted to be with her... so he took a big step, bought her a symbolic gift, and wrote her a long, long letter... again confessing his feelings.

And then the unthinkable happened.

She didn't reply.

He called her three times a day for almost a week before reaching her.

She made an excuse about being very busy, and said "I'll try to give you a call soon, I have to go"... and hung up...

...but he never got a call back.

Over the following months, the man tried desperately to understand what went wrong... and what happened.

THE END

OK, I'm back.

Now, wasn't that a sweet story?

Heart warming, huh?

I know, I should keep my day job, and not take up writing romance novels...

Now, let's talk about that story.

That story is basically a MYTH.

And I'm not talking about FICTION here.

I'm talking about a story that rings true for a great majority of men. A story that is timeless. A story that resonates at a deep level because you can IDENTIFY with it.

And why does this particular story resonate for most men?

Because we've all been there in one way or another... at one time or another... and many of us have been there OFTEN in our lives.

Another thing that gives this particular story a lot of power is the powerful negative emotions that it stirs... as a result of the powerful negative experiences that it reminds us of...

Stories and situations like this one really FASCINATE me.

They fascinate me because I see them as an opportunity to UNDERSTAND and SOLVE the puzzles that they represent.

In this particular situation I think there is a solution.

And it lies in understanding a secret that women know but MEN DON'T.

And that secret comes down to the reality that if a woman isn't ATTRACTED to a man, all of his attempts to confess his love, convince her to like him, and court her BACKFIRE.

In other words, they not only DON'T WORK, they actually make things WORSE.

In other words, the very things that a man does to try to make a woman LIKE HIM make her NOT like him. They make her run.

All those great intentions and emotional dedication actual cause the man feeling them to do things that make her go away.

It sucks.

And I hope that by explaining the process of how this happens to you I'll help you avoid this painful situation in your own future...


THE "INSTANT EWWW"

I'm always fascinated by the idea that we humans don't always understand the message that we're communicating to others...

So often we think that because we WANT to communicate a message that others are going to NATURALLY understand what we're trying to say.

Have you ever seen a guy in a foreign car that has wheels on it that cost more than the car itself... with his stereo blasting... and a muffler that somehow AMPLIFIES the raw sound of the 4-cylinder motor...?

Have you ever thought to yourself "I don't think that car is communicating the message to women that he thinks it is"...?

Yea, I have too.

Well here's the deal:

If you do something to "let a woman know how you feel"... but she isn't ATTRACTED to you, then it's going to backfire.

It's going to trigger a feeling that like to call the "Instant Ewww".

The Instant Ewww is just as powerful as the physical and emotional response of ATTRACTION.

Once a woman feels it, YOU'RE DONE.

It's over.

It's like hammering a RAILROAD SPIKE into the coffin.

Once a woman feels the Instant Ewww, she will start behaving differently.

In short, she'll disappear.

So where did I get the concept of the "Instant Ewww"?

I got it from WOMEN.

I have actually heard SEVERAL women use the word "Ewww" when describing how they felt about a guy that was "confessing his love"... of course, these were guys that weren't loved in return.

So what causes the Instant Ewww?

And why would a woman feel it towards a man who was trying to be nice... a guy who was giving her a gift or telling her how he feels?

Because if you think about it from HER perspective, you'll realize that the moment a you do something to "confess", you have created a TURNING POINT in the relationship.

Up until that point, you were harmless.

I mean, women always know how men feel.

She already knew you wanted her.

She knew it from the beginning.

But now that you've started pursuing her and talking about how you feel, you've created a NEGATIVE TENSION that is VERY uncomfortable.

You've triggered an emotion that is repulsive to women. And it does repel them.

In summary...

You can't "make a woman like you" or "change how she feels about you" by doing nice things for her...

Doing "nice" things for a woman who isn't attracted to you HURTS you. It backfires. Worse, it creates the "Instant Ewww" feeling that makes it so she'll NEVER like you.

Men make this mistake over and over again in life because they're doing what MAKES SENSE to them. They're doing it because they don't have an understanding of ATTRACTION.

I mean, If you have a friend, and you like them, and you want to make them like you more... and you do some nice thing for them, they will probably like you more.

On the other hand...

If you have a woman that you "like" in a romantic way, and she doesn't "feel it" for you, and you do something nice for her because you want HER to like you more, it will BACKFIRE... and she will not only NOT like you more, she will most likely distance herself from you.

Guys think that they need to communicate when they like a woman... as if that's part of the necessary process of getting a girl.

In their minds, it goes like this:

Like her>Tell her you like her>She likes you

Well remember... if you follow this pattern yourself with women who aren't ATTRACTED to you, then it's going to BACKFIRE.

If she's not into you, then it goes like THIS:

She thinks of you as a friend>You tell her you like her>She gets the "Instant Ewwws" and never wants to be around you again...


THE ANSWER

There are really TWO answers to this problem.

The first answer is what to do if you're in a situation where you like a particular girl, but you don't know if she likes you back.

DON'T GET HEAVY WITH HER.

Don't buy her a big gift and write a love letter...

Don't send her ten dozen roses to her work with a not that says "From your secret admirer".

Don't call her three times a day.

And DON'T CONFESS YOUR LOVE for her.

If you want to know how she feels about you, KISS HER (and use "The Kiss Test" that you learned on my website and in my book).

As a rule of thumb, don't get heavier than HER. Use SIGNALS from her to find out how she feels... and if you don't know how to read and create those signals, then LEARN.

Asking a woman if she's interested in your in a romantic way, or if you are "her type" will actually DESTROY the chances that she'll like you.

Really.

The SECOND answer is to not get into this particular situation in the FIRST PLACE. Avoid it entirely.

And how does one do that?

One does that by creating ATTRACTION from the beginning.

One does that by understanding the dynamics of how and why women have the physical and emotional response of ATTRACTION triggered.

One does that by knowing what you're doing FROM THE BEGINNING.

And what's the best way to learn THAT skill?

I thought you'd never ask...

The very best way to learn how to make women feel ATTRACTION for you is to get yourself a copy of my eBook, Double Your Dating.

I've spent several years now studying the ways that men who are "naturals" communicate using their words, voice tone, and body language that makes them MAGNETIC to women.

And I'll tell you... it's not magic.

You don't have to be rich, handsome, or young.

And you don't have to be LUCKY.

What you DO have to do is LEARN.

It's a skill, and I honestly believe that ANY man can learn it if he wants.

But you're not likely to figure it out by "trial and error". Many of the keys to making women feel ATTRACTION aren't "obvious" at all.

In fact, many of them make no sense... and they're the LAST thing you'd do in a particular situation if you didn't know the SECRETS.

I'm telling you, this book will show you the way. I guarantee that this program will INSTANTLY change how you behave around women.

And it will start getting you results IMMEDIATELY.

In addition, I'd also like to invite you to sign up for my free dating tips newsletter.
It's free, there's no obligation, I'll never share your email address with anyone, and you can easily remove yourself anytime with no hassles (and no, I'll never pull any of these tricks where I send you a bunch of unwanted junk email when you try to remove yourself).
It's JAM PACKED with dozens and dozens of specific strategies for overcoming fear, approaching women, getting phone numbers and email address from women quickly, great inexpensive or even free date ideas, and advice on how to take things to a "physical" level smoothly and easily.

If you'd like to take your success with women and dating to the next level, and have the kind of success that you've always wanted, then go sign up for my free newsletter, get all the details, and check out some great free samples of the eBook located here:

http://www.doubleyourdating.com/

PUA Pick Up Artists: Die Kunst der Verführung

Wenn es um die Kunst der Verführung geht werden viele Männer schlagartig wach (ob es den Frauen genauso geht vermag ich nicht genau einzuschätzen ). Vielleicht liegt es daran, dass die Verführung eine der interessantesten und faszinierendsten Formen der zielorientierten Kommunikation ist.

Ich muss gestehen, dass ich so beim müden und lustlosen Durchblättern einer Zeitschrift in einem Wartezimmer auf einen Artikel zum Thema Verführung aufmerksam wurde.

Die perfekte Masche

Es handelte sich um eine kurze Buchvorstellung des Romans von Neil Strauss mit dem Titel “Die perfekte Masche” und dem reißerischen Untertitel “Bekenntnisse eines Aufreißers”. Das klingt nach gutem Marketing dachte ich mir und vergaß die Geschichte einfach. Ein paar Monate später entdeckte ich genau dieses Werk in einer Buchhandlung und blätterte ein wenig darin herum (nicht ohne vorher verstohlen nach rechts und links abgesichert zu haben, dass mich niemand beobachtet). Auch wenn ich dem Inhalt nicht so recht traute, so war es zumindest so interessant geschrieben, dass ich es doch mit nach Hause nahm.

Die Geschichte

Der Inhalt handelt von dem Autor Neil Strauss selbst. Neil war bereits ein bekannter Autor u.a. beim amerikanischen Rolling Stone Magazin gewesen und hat einige Musikerbibliographien geschrieben, als er sich eingestand, dass seine Versuche beim anderen Geschlecht zu landen mehr als mäßig aussahen. Über die Entdeckung der Textsammlung mit dem Titel “Layguide” fand er zunächst den Weg in die Onlinewelt der PUA (Pick Up Artists = Verführungskünstler). Dort entdeckte er eine über den ganzen Erdball verstreute Gemeinschaft von Verführungskönnern bis...

WEITER LESEN HIER (http://blog.ziel-orientiert.de)


Auch aus diesem Artikel:

"Im Endeffekt ist PU eine Art und Weise Frauen kennen zu lernen, in der Mann sich von der Masse abhebt und auffällt, sei es durch starkes selbstbewusstes auftreten, durch Wortgewandtheit oder durch schrilles Outfit."(Quelle: Braino.de)

"These guys are awkward geeks who have learnt how to be arrogant Casanovas. Outside their routines, they are now arrogant geeks. Not a nice mix. Perhaps these guys could pick up any woman in the world, and perhaps they could show me how to do the same, but this still isn’t a world in which I feel comfortable. And not just because of my girlfriend."(Quelle: Operation Pick-Up)

“Ich denke Pick Up ist ein Trend, der fasziniert, der einige Menschen auch motiviert, der festgefügte Vorstellungen ins Wanken bringt, aber als Lebensgrundeinstellung nichts taugt.” (Quelle: Kommentar des Artikels)

Alex Picks Up Women - like Mystery Method

Streetgame

Telekom-Presse Kritik (Über Pick Ups und Body Language)

Über Pick Ups und Body Language
Unter dem Titel "Venus trifft Amor" verbirgt sich unvermuteter Weise ein Ratgeber für Männer, und zwar für solche die Frauen rumkriegen wollen - möglichst viele, mit möglichst wenig Aufwand. Nun, das Konzept erinnert stark an die Ratgeber mancher amerikanischer Autoren von der Sorte "So kriegst du in fünf Schritten jede rum!", denn unter den sieben Gründen die einem zum Lesen dieses Blogs bewegen sollten, ist unter anderem zu lesen: "...verführen Sie mit unserem Programm die Frauen, die Sie wollen, ohne einen Cent dafür auszugeben", oder "Sie müssen nicht gut aussehen, Geld oder Status haben...". Was frau sich dabei denkt soll hier ungesagt bleiben, zu sagen ist aber, dass die Beiträge oft sehr (ungewollt) komisch sind und etliche Rechtschreibfehler aufweisen. Eine weitere Besonderheit sind die vielen Anglizismen, beziehungsweise kurzerhand eingedeutschte Wörter, die gewollt cool wirken. Da sind die Beiträge des scheinbar englischsprachigen Koautors angenehmer zu lesen. Es ist ein Blog der durchaus Amüsantes zu bieten hat, auch - oder vor allem dann - wenn man die Jungs nicht allzu ernst nimmt.

(Quelle: Telekom-Presse)

Mystery: The Pick up Artist Show (VH1)

Mystery: The Pick up Artist Show:

Episode 1: http://puachannel.com/videos/Mystery_-_Pick_Up_Artist/_PUA_Episode_1

Episode 2: http://puachannel.com/videos/Mystery_-_Pick_Up_Artist/_PUA_Episode_2


Offizielle Seite: VH1.com

VH1-Blog: http://www.vh1mystery.com





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